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Wedding Invitations Tips
Themed wedding invitations
Any wedding can have a theme. It can be a color theme, a party type theme or a style of wedding theme. You can reflect all of these in your wedding invitation. You can match your invitations, envelope liner and font color to match your wedding colors. You can choose a more informal invitation with a tropical theme to reflect your tropical themed wedding. There are so many ways for your guests to know exactly what type of wedding they are attending as soon as they open the wedding invitation envelope. Have fun and be as creative as you can. This is a day you will remember forever and it should reflect your personality.
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Ordering Wedding Invitations
We recommend that you order 15-25 more wedding invitations than you think you need. It can be expensive to place a smaller additional order after your initial order has been completed. You will need extra invitations for any mistakes and last minute additions to your guest list. Itīs also nice to save a few as keepsakes!
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Should I order extra wedding invitations?
Ordering extra wedding invitations with your initial order is a must. You should order extra wedding invitations and at least 25 extra envelopes.
You need extra envelopes and invitations in case:
1.) You forgot to add people to your wedding list and need to send them an invitation.
2.) You mail some invitations to the wrong address and they get all marked up and returned to sender and you need clean fresh invitations to resend to the correct address.
3.) You may make errors when writing the addresses on your envelopes and need new ones to replace them.
4.) You may have a few people reply and say they cannot attend. Once your first wave of guests accept or decline you can send invitations to your second guest list to fill the alloted slots.
5.) You will want to keep one or two yourself to have framed or to put in a scrap book to remember your special day.
When you order extra envelopes or invitations with your initial order the costs are very minimal. If you have to order more later they cannot be added to your initial order - they are considered a seperate order by the printer and can cost up to 3 times as much for just 25 more. You would be wise to order too many and have extra than to be under and have to reorder and pay the extra costs.
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Second marriage invitations
Weddings for a second marriage can be hosted by the brideīs parents, the bride and groom themselves or other people. Whoever is hosting would be listed on the invitation as the host. The rest of the invitation can be traditional wedding invitation wording or can be fun with a poem, rhymes, an invitation with fun graphics or a photo depending on the formality of the event.
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When to order and mail wedding invitations
When should I order my invitations? Invitations should be ordered at least three months before the wedding. Engraved invitations should be ordered four to five months in advance. All of your wedding details, such as date, time, approx. number of attendees and locations should be confirmed prior to placing your order.
When should I mail my invitations? Typically, wedding invitations should be mailed 4-6 weeks prior to the response date for a formal function and 3 weeks prior for a very informal wedding. (This may fluctuate depending on your RSVP date.)
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Addressing wedding envelopes
Many wedding invitations have double envelopes. This is from when they hand delivered letters and the outer envelope would arrive filthy and torn but it would protect the inner envelope so it was delivered in a pristine condition.
Wedding invitation envelopes need to be hand-written either in handwriting or calligraphy. Labels are not acceptable for wedding invitations.
The information on wedding invitation envelopes needs to be written out in full everywhere possible. This adds formality to the envelope.
Addressing the outer envelope:
Mr. and Mrs. John Doe Smith One Elm Street Lumberton, North Carolina 28358
Inner envelope:
Mr. and Mrs. Smith
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Wedding invitation formats
All formal wedding invitations follow the same format:
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith request the honour of your presence (if in church) pleasure of your company (if not in church) at the marriage of their daughter Jane Elizabeth to Mr. John James Jones (you can add "son of Mr. and Mrs. Edward Jones) Saturday, the fifth of May two thousand and four two oīclok in the afternoon Saint Maryīs Church Lumberton, North Carolina
Reception to follow at Pinecrest Country Club
Different people can host your wedding other than the parentīs of the bride. When others host the wedding and reception, they are listed at the top of the wedding invitation.
If you are having a more casual wedding, you can write as creatively as you like. You can rhyme, add a poem, etc. just make sure you include the who, what, when, where that is needed for your guests to know the specifics of your event.
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Second marriage invitations
Second marriages can be hosted by the bride and groom, the parents of the groom or anyone else. You would note the host of the event at the top of the invitation, just like a traditional wedding invitation hosted by the brideīs parents.
You can use a traditional wedding invitation or you can choose to have a more fun and creative wedding wedding invitation to reflect the type of wedding you are having.
Some people even like to add "together with their children Katherine Elizabeth Jones and Michael James Smith" so they can include them in the ceremony.
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wedding inviation paper color
Traditional wedding invitations are white, ivory, or ecru.
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Reception only, not ceremony
You can invite your guests to a local reception after a destination wedding. You can usually still use a standard wedding invitation, just word it as follows:
If hosted by the brideīs parents:
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith are pleased to announce the marriage of their daughter Jane Elizabeth Smith and Mr. James Doe Jones on the fifth of May two thousand and four at Saint Maryīs Church in Cochobomba, Bolivia
Please join us in celebrating this most blessed union with a party in our home Saturday, the twenty-second of May 555 North Elm Street Columbia, South Carolina
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When to order thank you notes
You may wish to purchase your thank you notes at the same time that you order your invitations. In most cases, we offer thank you notes that coordinate with your wedding invitation.
You should have individual and joint thank you notes on hand before the wedding so that you can write your notes as the gifts come in or you will extremely overwhelmed after the wedding when you have to write 250 thank you notes at the same time.
Also, you want to send in a timely manner or people will wonder if you received their gift or if it was lost in delivery.
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Who to send marriage announcements to
You send marriage announcements to any friend or family member who would want to know (or need to know) that you were married. Donīt send announcements to just anyone to hopefully receive a gift. Send them to the people who really care and would love to know that you are now married.
You should have the marriage announcements printed, addressed and stamped to go into the mail the day of your marriage or very close after. It is really nice for the recipients to see the postmark on the announcement as the same date of the wedding. It puts that extra personalization and thought into the announcement.
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Same Sex Ceremony Invitations
There are wedding announcements and wedding invitations for commitment ceremonies and now for same sex marraige ceremonies. Traditional wording is fine or it is obviously at the discretion of the participants to decide how formal an affair this will be. Choose an invitation to best reflect your type of ceremony.
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Wedding Announcements and Gifts
You are not expected to send a wedding gift upon receipt of a wedding announcement. If it is a member of your immediate family or if it is a good friend you should give them a gift to celebrate such a happy moment. Still, a wedding announcement is not like a wedding where a gift is really required.
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Destination Wedding Invitations
You would write your destination wedding invitation in the same format as a "home-town" wedding invitation, including the location.
You should also send a save the date card to your guests WELL in advance with the date, location, and accomodation information. This way your guests will reserve the date for you and they can budget for the flight and accomodation costs.
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No Children, Please
Some people may only be able to accomodate a certain number of people at their wedding because of financial or size limitations and cannot invite children because they need the space for additional adult friends.
Some people may want to have an adult celebration with drinking and dancing and would like the parents to stay late and "party" with them at their wedding and children and heavily drinking adults arenīt really an ideal mix.
You would not address "no children" on the actual wedding invitation. You make a few well-placed calls. Have your bridesmaids or your family say, "you know I hate to tell you but they canīt accommodate kids at this upcoming wedding. Please arrange for somebody to take care of them." Itīs terrible to put it on the invitations. Itīs such a strong negative to have printed on such a positive invitation - "no children" or "adults only". So just make a few telephone calls and tell them to spread the word, and they will.
Some couples may supply a couple of sitters or nannys to sit for children who may come with their parents. You can include this information with your save the date card or in the invitation.
Make sure you address the wedding invitations (inner and outer) with the parents names only and if you are not having any children, make sure you donīt allow some people to bring children and others not or you will end up with hurt feelings.
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Where will guests send gifts
You can put an address on the wedding invitation "at home after June 3rd" or you can just show it on the return address. If youīre going on a cruise and you havenīt been living together, youīre going to get wedding presents sent and there is going to be nobody there to get them. So what you do is you say, "at home after January 20th" on the invitation or on a separate At Home card. If the wedding is on December 20th, and you put your parentīs address as the return address they will get the RSVPīs and the early wedding gifts. Some guests will wait until youīre back and youīre in residence and send your wedding presents then, which isnīt a bad idea either. Many different situations can be addressed with the use of an At Home card.
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Labels vs. Handwritten Envelopes
Labels on wedding invitations are terrible. You want your wedding invitation to stand out and if you are going to the trouble and cost of planning a formal wedding, why would you consider making your wedding invitation envelopes look mass produced? Weddings are one time everything should be done by hand. Even if you can only get a high school student with bad handwriting, it doesnīt matter, it just has to be handwritten.