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Comments6/27/2006 11:12:31 PMMary Dailey said: This is true except in the US military. We host parties for hundreds of people and alway have everyone pay their own way. If the host pays for the event he/she would be considered using incorrect form. It is NOT considered uncomfortable or rude...just the opposite...it is considered the norm to charge the invitee for a large event. When we have private functions at our homes, ei dinners or luncheons with a small number of people, we do not charge people to attend. I'm not sure how long this has been a military tradition...probably since the beginning because most of our customs in the United States started with the military and have evolved from there. 12/27/2006 12:41:42 PM Rivergirl said: good to know! Im having difficulty with this matter. My husband is conservative and may feel badly if I denote a "price per person". But since its his 50th, I wanted to make a big deal out of it. The food cost alone is $40.00 per person, so I was wondering if I could suggest $20.00 per person which would lighten the load for me personally. It seems like a managable amount when you think about all the food that will be served in a formal setting. I don't know how I would feel if I received an invitation like this??
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